GUIDE

How to collect videos from your wedding guests

At almost every wedding, guests quietly film the toasts, the first dance and the dance floor. Then the clips sit on forty different phones. This guide covers the ways to gather them, and the few small things that decide whether you end up with a pile of footage or an empty folder.

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Why it is harder than it sounds

Most guests mean to send their videos and never do. Event-app makers say the same thing: if the QR code is hidden, you get fewer uploads, and guests rarely go back afterward to upload everything. The best moment to ask is during the event, while people are holding their phones.

The other problem is friction. Anything that asks guests to install an app, create a long account or email large files loses people fast.

Five ways to collect guest videos

A shared album or folder (Google Photos, iCloud, Dropbox). Free and familiar, but built for photos in general, not events, so uploading can feel clunky and videos are large.
An upload link to your own cloud storage. Free tools exist that give you one link and send everything, in original quality, to your Drive.
An event photo and video app with a QR code. Guests scan, type a name and upload from their browser. These usually cost roughly $29 to $119 per event, and many cap or charge extra for video. They give you a folder, not an edited film.
A video guestbook. Good for short message clips from guests, less so for candid moments across the day.
A film service that builds the film for you. Guests film, and the service edits their clips into one video. ReelKept by Lumi is built for this and is open now.

Whatever you pick, choose one place for guests to send clips. Two options means half the footage goes to the wrong one.

Get guests to actually send clips

Put the QR code where people already look: your wedding website, the program, the ceremony entrance and every reception table.
Ask out loud. Have the DJ or MC mention it twice, once early and once after dinner.
Give them something specific to film. "Tell us your best advice" or "film the dance floor for ten seconds" gets more than "send us your videos."
Name a few filming captains. Pick five or six outgoing friends and ask them to film the key moments: toasts, first dance, cake, send-off.
Send one friendly reminder within the week. Guests are far likelier to reply to a short message than to a long one.

What to ask guests to film

The toasts and speeches, from the front or the side so the speaker's voice is clear.
The first dance, and the moment the dance floor fills up.
Short messages to the couple, filmed sideways (landscape).
Table greetings and group cheers.
The send-off.

A film is only as good as what goes in. A mix of toasts, dancing and greetings from many different guests makes a much better film than twenty clips of the same song from the same table.

Be thoughtful about recording

Let guests know they may be filmed, and tell them where the clips will go. Some places have rules about recording audio without everyone's consent, so a short note on your website and a sign at the entrance is a good habit. If you are keeping the ceremony phone-free, see our guide to getting guest video from an unplugged wedding.

Questions people ask

How many guest videos do I need for a wedding film?

There is no magic number. What matters most is variety: clips from many different guests that cover the toasts, the dancing and candid moments. A smaller set from lots of people usually beats a large set from one or two.

Do guests need to download an app to send videos?

Not with most event tools. Guests scan a QR code and upload from their phone browser. Apps that require a download tend to get far fewer uploads.

When should guests upload their videos?

During the event if possible. Guests rarely go back later to upload everything, so make the first ask while phones are in hand and send one reminder within a week.

Keep reading

Wedding video without a videographer: 6 realistic optionsSix realistic options, what they cost, and what you give up. Wedding camcorder rental vs. guests' phonesCost, quality and effort side by side, and when to use both. How to collect videos from guests at any partyPrompts for birthdays, showers, graduations, reunions and holidays. What is ReelKept by Lumi?One film from everyone's phones.

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